My Own Turf
by Debbie Weissman
I made aliyah over 30 years ago. I want all of you contemplating this big move to know that if and when you come, in a way, you will remain olim forever. Our introspection and self-consciousness about the reasons we're here never leave us. I suppose that the reasons why I came and the reasons why I'm still here aren't totally the same, but there is still some overlap between them.
A Whole Country of Jews
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"So..I ask the person who looks at someone like me with a raised eyebrow, who thinks that life is so hard and horrible and 'not for them' over here, If life is so hard and horrible, then why do I feel as though I'm sitting on top of the world?"
Rashi Rosenzweig, Ra'anana immigrant of two years |
One of the main reasons I came and stayed had to do with the Shabbat and the holidays. I love the Jewish calendar. I love living by it-it thrills me to celebrate Purim and Pesach and even Tu Bishvat with a whole country of Jews. I still get excited about Hebrew language and culture. Israel is still a fascinating, multi-cultural country where everyone has a story.
But I want to add that one of the best things for me about living here, totally unanticipated before I came, has to do with the opportunity to have deep friendships with non-Jews. Growing up in the States, most of my friends were Jewish. To this day, many of my friends and relatives who live in America live in exclusively Jewish environments. Most of them have never hosted a Christian or a Muslim in their homes, certainly not at their Shabbat table.
On the other hand, living in Jerusalem, as I do, I frequently host non-Jewish guests in my home on Shabbat or Yom Tov . I am engaged in much interfaith work - both teaching and dialoguing . The synagogue I attend, Kehillat Yedidya in Jerusalem, has a long-standing tradition of hosting groups of Christians from all over the world. Spending time with religious people of other faiths has deepened my own spiritual commitments.